I know this isn’t what you’re used to seeing on Fantasy Friday.

But a girl’s got to have a place to put all of her fabulous shoes, clothes, and baubles, doesn’t she?
One of my favorite things to do is to look at all of the insanely gorgeous (and borderline obnoxious) houses that surround me here in South Florida, and dream about one day owning something – oh, maybe 10% as fabulous as a house like this. {And as this home is currently going for a cool $23 million, that takes me to a home worth about $2.3 mill. Yes, please.} The style of the home is Moroccan, which I love. I’ve realized in all my dreamy house hunting that I’m partial to either Mediterranean or Moroccan or something with an exotic twist. Yes, some of the decor could use a little modernization, but all in all, the structure of this house is perfection. I mean, just look at the pool and outdoor area. Can you even imagine daily alfresco cocktailing in a setting like that? D-I-E.
Dreaming about the future is somewhat of an escape for me, yet at the same time very real. The best part? I don’t know exactly what’s going to happen or how it’s going to end, but I know it’s going to be beautiful. One of the reasons I know this is because my fairy-tale has already begun.
{More on this later}
The funny part is I never imagined myself settling down in Florida permanently to raise a family and start a life. I always thought I’d do all of that up north. I guess I thought the north would breed better children – partly because when I went to college, all of the northern boys I met always seemed much more real and…just better (I did later fall in love with one, after all). That and the fact that I’ve known way too many subpar boys (and girls) who originated in Florida – and yes, I can say that, because I’m from here.
When I met Daniel, mind you – a New Yorker in every sense of the word – all of that changed. One of our first discussions was about where we wanted to settle down. My theory was up north, for the above said reasons, and I was fairly sure he’d agree. Well, life is full of surprises. Turns out he was done with living in the cold for most of his life, and he’d taken quite a liking to living down here. He loved playing golf year round, he wanted his sons to be able to play sports outdoors all year, he didn’t want to shovel snow, he loved being near the beach…and the list goes on. Once he started talking, I realized I didn’t have much of an argument. I couldn’t even THINK about not living within a 5 mile radius to the ocean, let alone shoveling snow – ugh. The white Christmases I had dreamed of for my children now seemed better off taking place on a ski trip in Colorado. Or perhaps in a second home in Manhattan.
{It’s funny how you can think you want something and have no idea what you’re talking about. You just have this idea in your head and you stick with it, until you’re forced to actually think it out logically.}
So, the decision and compromise was rather simple. We’d live happily ever after in South Florida (and our children would go to private school).
And with houses like this to dream of and look forward to – can you blame me?